You Are Normalising Sexual Offenders!

Don’t be surprised who the abuser is, statistics show that it’s rarely the creeper guy down the road or the stranger.  It’s the ones who are in power. And we are normalising sexual abuse offenders whilst continuing to silence the sexual abuse survivors. It’s on the rise because you are allowing the lenient sentencing and then […]

Why Didn’t You Report? Why Didn’t You Protect Me!

What was I reporting? A man who was my abuser or the man who was my protector?   See that’s the complexities of a child abuse victim they don’t know what the difference is, their whole concept of normal is a disillusioned version.   The brain a mush, not knowing what to remember or should […]

TEDX Speaker – Growing Hope for Warrior Women

When the invitation request came through in my email, I accepted of course! Being invited as a Speaker for TEDX Swansea Women was pretty big right, and then when I replied asking what they would like me to speak about… FGM was the response.  I got this! However, as it soon came around, naturally the […]

Is Female Genital Mutilation in Islam?

One of the most controversial topics is Female Genital Mutilation in Religion and more commonly within Islam. I am often asked what my perspective is with regards to Female Genital Mutilation or more commonly known as Female Circumcision within the Islamic world. I will therefore share my understanding here, this is my personal Islamic perspective […]

Birth Trauma / Obstetric Violence Awareness

I was a new mum to be, I was so excited to hold my baby, the pregnancy had been so challenging, especially as we had waited so many years to conceive (being an Endometriosis sufferer).  Throughout the pregnancy we’d had some scares and I suffered with hyperemesis gravidarum (severe pregnancy sickness that can include hospitalisation […]

My Abuser Knows Where I live, but as the Victim I am Not Given that Right!

Do I not have the right to minimise the risk to myself and my children? Why can’t I know where my Sex Offender has been relocated upon release? Why can’t I have the right to protect myself? Upon my fathers release from prison, I was / and still am not allowed to know where he […]

Sentencing Guidelines for Child Sexual Abuse – Unjust

Has Justice really prevailed? A Child Sexual Abuse Survivor is NEVER free from the abuse, physically and mentally being tortured until the day they die.  Don’t let me believe the sentence is justified… Anyone who has read My Story, will clearly see how unjust the sentencing was. On the 22nd May 2014, The Enquirer released […]

Out-Source to Reduce Waiting Lists for Support…

On the 11th October, I was interviewed by ITV Wales regarding my waiving of anonymity. I agreed to the interview in order to focus on my campaign to call on the Welsh Government to provide Child Houses in Wales, something that I am very passionate about, especially as an Organisation that has been supporting women […]